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How You Can Get To Meet Your Rock Starlet Crush:
So you have a crush on a Musician? A weekend rock starlet? A lugar celebrity? Maybe getting to know him is not spil hard spil you think. Most Musicians love knowing they having ventilatoren, and because of this are not totally unapproachable.
Assuming you’re overheen the legítimo age to get to one of his gigs, here’s some handy hints about how to get his mind on you!
Firstly, you’ll need to look up his (or his tape’s schedule or bookings) either from your nave paper, or online. While you’re searching, attempt to find out a few things of rente about them (most Musicians or their bands have Bio’s) you might find something which you can straks use spil talking points when you get to meet him. This is made lighter if you’re following your rock strak crush on Twitter and Facebook, spil you’ll get an insight into their lifestyle and the activities they love te their downtime.
Merienda you know where he’s performing, research the various venue’s he’ll be performing at. The best way to get access to treatment him will be te a smaller and more casual venue, not at a large muziekstuk where there may be considerable entourage and security staff, and he may spend the entire evening backstage, behind the scenes, providing you next to no chance of meeting him offstage.
Merienda you’ve chosen the venue and night you’ll attend, you need to consider how you’ll present yourself. The music industry is all about what’s “cool”, so you’ll have to give the impression that you’re a ‘cool doll’, both te looks and personality. Also consider his own style style when you determine on what you’ll wear for the evening. Spil a común rule, you don’t want to dress too overheen the top, yet you want to be a little more captivating than the others te the crowd. Maybe you’re ter jeans but you’re wearing killer crimson boots and you’ve let your hair down! You don’t want to scream ‘groupie’ if you want a efectivo chance of getting to know him, yet you’ll want to look a little sassy, so if you’re programma to wear a mini-skirt, voorkant up more at the top, or vice versa. Let there be bright colours be on your lips and fingernails or jewellery, but don’t over-do the eye-makeup too much, and pick an uitrusting you’ll look cutest ter on the dance floor!
You’ll need to recruit at least one of your ‘cool’ friends to go to his gig with you. Choose friends who’ll be glad to get up on the dance floor with you! If you like him, you vereiste show up to like his music, so that means you’ll need to get up and dance! Did you know, even amongst all the lights on stage and the low lighting on the dance floor, a musician on stage can see everyone on the dance floor, so you don’t need to be dancing right up gevelbreedte, at the bottom of his microphone, but don’t dance too far up the back either, because he needs to be able to see on your face that you are loving his display. The most significant thing on the dance floor is to make sure you’re moving to the music and looking like you’re truly, truly having joy! You can sometimes also send a smile his way spil you notice him while you’re dancing, but still keep the ‘cool’ multiplicador by glancing away and continuing to dance and love yourself. You want to catch his eye a little, and just let him notice how much you’re loving his music. Even if you don’t know the music, it’s best to pretend on the dance floor that thesis are truly your favourite songs!
Musician’s perform ter ‘sets’, so there will be cracks te inbetween his spectacles. This is the time you need to look for a chance to treatment him if you can, and because of the muziekstuk setting you’re ter, it’s okay to be a little cheeky about it. For example “Hi Paul, I’m sally, I love your music, and I go after you on Twitter, do you mind if I waterput ter a special request for (One of his songs that you love)?”. Te just one sentence now he knows your name, he knows you are one of his followers (He could potentially look you up online, or may recognise you now if you comment on one of his Tweets te the future) and he knows that you know his music!
During his violates inbetween sets, he’s usually taking the chance to have a drink and cool down for a little while, or to unwind and love the atmosphere ter the slagroom. If he goes to the Drankbuffet, it’s certainly your best chance to slide te next to him (even discreetly following him there) and commence a conversation. He’s feeling the rush of coming down from up on stage, and you’re letting him know you’re liking the entertainment he’s providing. Ter a casual treatment like this, all you indeed need to do is smile and introduce yourself and say you’re “Indeed loving the voorstelling”, when he politely says “Thanks” it’s your chance to attempt to spark up further conversation such spil “Oh I indeed love it how you. ” or “I loved your last song” Something sweet! It’s okay to him know you’re a little bit of a fan of his, so long spil you keep it casual, keep your cool and don’t go entirely overheen the top the very first time you speak! If you can make him smile you’ve done well so far, and you’re leaving a good very first impression. And when the music’s back on, be back up their dancing again, so he can notice you there!
During show violates, your Musician crush my not be alone, but don’t worry, spil at this stage you’re only attempting to be friendly, and give the impression that you’re having joy, so you can still treatment him spil above if he’s with a fellow plakband member or friend (even if it’s another woman) without providing off the wrong impression. Be friendly towards his friend, so they’ll have a good impression of you too, but stay focused on beginning a little conversation with your crush.
If he’s not moving far from the stage te his set violates, it’s OK to cheekily treatment him from the dance-floor and strike up a conversation, for example, “Hi, excuse mij, I’m sally, I just indeed wished to say how much wij’re liking your showcase tonight, where can wij see you again next?” etc. This kleuter of flattering and respectful conversation should leave him glad. Spil a musician his aim is to please the crowd. And if tells you where he’s performing next, it gives to a possible future date to geflirt with him!
After this initial voeling, brief conversation and more time dancing along to his music with your friend, you can treatment him a 2nd time straks, and thank him for a superb night, because you’ve already cracked the ice with him. Ask if they have a social network webpagina where you can go after the relatie on. And when you zometeen join or go after them online you can postbode to their timeline something like “Hi, nice to meet you Saturday, indeed had mij up dancing, your music is amazing! Can’t wait to see you perform again xo Sally” He’s trussed to have a quick look at your social network profile then, so make sure you’re profile will also give a good impression of you!
After attending just one of his shows, it’s now likely he now knows your name and would recognise you if he witnessed you again! So it’s time to project the next gig you will attend and similarly repeat the above!
At the next venue you attend, if you find any chance to speak with him again, this time ask him if he knows a good place to go out afterwards. Or you could private message him on his social network webpagina and tell him that you’re truly looking forward to his next showcase at (Wherever it is) and ask him if he does know a nice place to go to dance after you’ve bot to that demonstrate. He might even end up being there afterwards too, permitting you more opportunities to talk with him. You may even want to slip him your phone number too.
I’ve found personally, sometimes it takes a brief discussion with a musician crush overheen two or three gigs, before you indeed become friends with each other, and this opens up other perks, besides the chance for romance, such spil free tickets to upcoming shows (Or leaving your name on the venue ingevolge), invitations to go back stage with him inbetween sets, and titillating opportunities to meet talented and interesting people.