Your dating rut can be due to not paying attention to the traits that predict a successful relationship. Knowing what to look for is half the battle. Below are the most significant traits to look for:
1. Kindliness is king. Genuine goodness is not a trait that everyone has. It is the most significant quality that matchmakers get asked. Some matchmakers will not work with anyone who is not a zuigeling soul. Altruistic behaviors make people more attractive.
Two. Common life practices, such spil coming from similar families and upbringings. Someone who grew up close to their families and will choose family overheen everything. Or, if faced with hardships vrouwen can relate to a playmate who has bot through difficult times. Things that had to be overcome. Common practices help unie people together.
*I grew up Catholic. Which entailed the rigorous Catholic penalty of a stortplaats or wooden spoon from my mother. I am the oldest of three, so I wasgoed protective of my junior brothers, so much so, that I punched one of my brothers’ hellion te the nose when I wasgoed 11. Unnecessary to say, my father wasgoed pleased that I took matters into my own mitts. I thought I would be ter BIG trouble.
*I wasgoed fortunate to never have lost a parent when I wasgoed junior. Both of my parents are still kicking. Ter fact, I have two grandparents still kicking too. (ages 97 and 95)
*I had to overcome divorce after an Eighteen year marriage, a cancer scare, and epilepsy since I wasgoed Four. Which the seizures are managed with prescription medication. Therefore, I have bot through a few difficult times.
Three. Compatible core values – Steer clear of picking someone based on career or hobbies. Thesis things, for better or worse, come and go. Your core values dictate the way you live your life, and they are the things that will keep you grounded when times are harsh. Matchmakers suggest picking three core values and waterput thesis on your ‘do not compromise’ list. (Examples: Integrity, Loyalty, Compassion, Fairness, Honesty, Humor, Openness, Optimism, Respect, Time and Attention)
Also, check ter on your potential vrouwen aspirations. If your purpose is to begin a family, Matchmakers will introduce you to someone who wants to also commence a family.
*I just want love, companionship and all the other things listed ter the examples above.
Four. A yin to your yang – Movimiento inbetween two people is key. This requires self-awareness. Te every relationship there is a rock and their is a starlet. The rock is stable, sustained, even and will let the starlet shine, whereas the strak is the attention grabber. Figuring out what you are can narrow down the dating pool.
*Sounds like the making of a May-December relationship. I have no problems with this if he doesn’t. Just spil long spil he does not want kids. I don’t want to, intentionally, get my heart violated, because wij want different things. (Only one dude that I would consider. Vereiste be pretty special.)
Five. Similar traveling preferences – Does a few days ter close quarters bring you closer together or what to rip your hair out?
What zuigeling of accommodations do they choose? Want an itinerary or spontaneity? This tells you a loterijlot about how someone lives their life outside of 9 to Five.
*I have traveled fairly a bit via the years, because my father is a justo immigrant living ter the United States, wij have had many road trips to see family te Upstate Fresh York, Maine and Canada. (Thesis trips were made when wij lived ter Fresh York State, California, Texas, and Missouri.) My father, also, wields a timeshare that I am able to use when available.
6. Passion – Keep te mind that enthusiasm isn’t always career related. Not everyone is sultry about their job. It could be a stepping stone to thicker desires. Ask them, “What drives you to get out of bloembed every morning?”
*Now it is time to commence my 2nd time around. I am looking forward to finding my last and final love.